The key is your attitude and mindset
Living well is the best revenge, and I believe that one cannot buy life experience at a store and then hope that it will carry you on a comfortable pillow through life. You can succeed but you have to be willing to take the hits and keep moving forward. Once you do that you can build a happy and joyful life. We all got problems in life, some of them are big, some of them are small. But the quality of your life is very dependent upon how you approach those challenges! Go out into the world and live your life on your own terms. The key is inside of your mind and heart. After all, life is about having a good time. So do that!